I was recently a guest on Myke Macapinlac’s Social Confidence Mastery video podcast, where I gave a female perspective to Myke‘s audience of shy men eager to learn how to feel more confident around women.
During our chat, Myke dropped some great perspective on what’s going on in guys’ heads when they’re thinking about approaching a woman – like the insecurities and fears that pop-up.
Because honestly, we’re all human and our feelings about peple we’re attracted to are very similar.
Video Interview: How to Understand Women
Video Interview Timestamps
0:53 — My personal story of social struggle, especially not knowing how to talk to guys
2:32 — Aspects that high-quality women find attractive in men
5:46 — Why guys can be so afraid to approach women
7:10 — How what you wear determines your level of confidence
7:30 — Give a guy an easy chance to give you a compliment – and then follow-up by saying this
11:07 — Some of the biggest struggles that women have in online dating
11:48 — How to tap into all the opportunities around you in real life
13:10 — Where to meet men and how to be more approachable
14:42 — Getting real about rejection and nervousness – because everyone deals with these feelings
16:08 — Just remember this one phrase to keep a conversation going
22:03 — How to maintain interest beyond the first date
25:30 — How to show a guy that you’re approachable
28:03 — The pros and cons of approaching at the gym