VIDEO: What Men are Thinking When They Approach You

Dating Coach Myke Macapinlac and I reveal this male mindset mystery.
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I was recently a guest on Myke Macapinlac’s Social Confidence Mastery video podcast, where I gave a female perspective to Myke‘s audience of shy men eager to learn how to feel more confident around women.

During our chat, Myke dropped some great perspective on what’s going on in guys’ heads when they’re thinking about approaching a woman – like the insecurities and fears that pop-up.

Because honestly, we’re all human and our feelings about peple we’re attracted to are very similar.

Video Interview: How to Understand Women

Video Interview Timestamps

0:53 — My personal story of social struggle, especially not knowing how to talk to guys

2:32 — Aspects that high-quality women find attractive in men

5:46 — Why guys can be so afraid to approach women 

7:10 — How what you wear determines your level of confidence

7:30 — Give a guy an easy chance to give you a compliment – and then follow-up by saying this

11:07 — Some of the biggest struggles that women have in online dating

11:48 — How to tap into all the opportunities around you in real life

13:10 — Where to meet men and how to be more approachable

14:42 — Getting real about rejection and nervousness – because everyone deals with these feelings

16:08 — Just remember this one phrase to keep a conversation going

22:03 — How to maintain interest beyond the first date

25:30 — How to show a guy that you’re approachable

28:03 — The pros and cons of approaching at the gym

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Article by Camille Virginia

After graduating with a degree in Marketing, I worked in the corporate consulting world for over a decade before starting my business Master Offline Dating to help singles attract love in the real world.

But my true passion (and the secret sauce to my clients' incredible results) is helping people create more meaningful in-person connections in our digitally-disconnected world.

I'm now the #1 Offline Dating Expert, an award-winning writer, and author of two best-selling books. I've also taught over 100 live workshops, reach subscribers across more than 130 countries, and have been featured in major media outlets including the Atlantic, the BBC, and USA Today,

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